MAO continues 'Dining with Friends' tradition


Column by Deborah Hayes Moore • Special to the Advertiser • November 14, 2010

When fall rolls around, the Cap­ital City is alive with more events than you can imagine, providing residents and visitors with a host of fun things to do.

Traditionally a time to support Montgomery AIDS Outreach, Oc­tober was filled with a variety of events hosted to support "Dining with Friends," generally MAO's largest annual fundraiser. In its seventh year, more than $15,000 was raised recently as donors ar­rived to enjoy more than 10 events held across the city and beyond.

As its general premise, gener­ous River Region residents sup­port the MAO benefit by hosting brunches, luncheons, cocktail par­ties and dinners throughout the month. Hosts volunteer to provide the venues and foot the bill, invit­ing friends and other supporters to enjoy the afternoons and evenings with them. MAO benefits from 100 percent of the donations made by guests who attend each event.

For a minimum $25 donation, guests appreciate the culinary of­ferings and often themed-gather­ings. Jim Hodgson served as chairman of the 2010 events, with the support of Lynne Zaris, Nick Rojeski and Marion Chartoff.

Southern lady and gent inspire

Jim and Steve Brickley kicked things off by hosting a Fri­day evening dinner at their 1920s Old Cloverdale home, the former residence of legendary Montgom­ery society editor and ball organiz­er, the late Esther Reynolds Ma­honey.

The duo greeted their lucky dozen of guests at the staircase entrance where Mahoney would interview her own guests as they arrived for soirees of yesteryear. Guests, including Vanzetta and Thomas McPherson, Rebecca Hagen, Sarah Williams, Bob Vardaman, Garry Brantley, Joe and Lucie Lee Lanoux and Marion and Craig Baab, were excited to spend the evening in the home where Mahoney had also taped her much anticipated radio shows. There, they supported "Dining with Friends 2010," enjoy­ing a meal inspired by cookbook author Frank Stitt.

As they mingled during the cocktail hour, they were offered fresh okra and flutes of Waterford Crystal filled with champagne and sparkling peach juice. Before be­ing seated at a long table accented with pristine white cloths and fuchsia-colored blossoms and greenery, they admired Stitt's "Southern Table" cookbook and the personal note he wrote thank­ing the guests for their support of the MAO benefit.

To focus the event on Alabama, recipes were selected from the cookbook, with Jennie Weller Cat­ering's executive chefs Beth Clark and Davina McRae implementing their artful preparation and the service of each course with accompanying wines.

Guests enjoyed Mrs. Verba's pi­mento cheese with rosemary cros­tini; sweet corn cake with chiffo­nade of greens and smoked beef brisket with tomato jam; smoked trout salad with avocado, orange and frisee; curried pumpkin soup; chicken sauté with lemons, capers and bread crumbs and glazed au­tumn vegetables. The dinner con­cluded with apple almond bread pudding with cinnamon and rum crème anglaise.

Faux-themes excite

Diane and Alan Weil sent each guest a different invitation for the Saturday night dinner par­ty they hosted to support MAO. Costumes were optional to support the array of themes that included "Under the Big Top", "Playboy Mansion", "Wild, Wild West", and "Redneck Reunion."

Their guests included Bari and Joe Levin, who received a "Phan­tom of the Opera"-inspired invita­tion; Robin and Jeff Blitz, Jenny and John Ives, Lee Terrell, Carl Stokes, LeAnne and Steve Wall­ace and Pete Ginsburg as well as Tony Hickman, who responded by arriving in costume to support the hilarious "barefoot and pregnant" invitation he had received.

Alan's cosmopolitans were a big hit during the cocktail hour, as guests watched the Alabama vs. Tennessee game, and enjoyed ap­petizers of brie with a fig compote, and black-eyed pea caviar. Diane prepared all the night's dishes, in­cluding butternut squash soup; and green salads with dried cran­berries, pistaschios and gorgonzo­la cheese topped with a Meyer lem­on vinaigrette.

She also prepared baked mari­nated salmon, which Alan caught in British Columbia in July; bun­dles of haricot verts wrapped in roasted red pepper strips; and tri-color fingerling potatoes. Braised pears with Chantilly cream were served for dessert with chocolates, coffees and Alan's specialty -- chocolate martinis.

Fiesta time!

Added to the wonderful ambi­ence of Michael's Table, favorite music from south of the border played throughout the Mexican fi­esta gathering hosted by Lynne Zaris, Frank Gitschier, Michael Hochhalter, Tony Walker, Sandra and Jim Nickel and Charlotte and Peter Brambir.

A large piñata was hung from a tree outside the Zelda Road restau­rant to set the tone for the occa­sion, while inside, tables were fes­tooned with colorful miniature bell peppers and vases of Mexican herbs. Ray Brown, whose birth­day was the next day, had the hon­or of delighting the guests by tak­ing a whack at the piñata during the evening.

Peter Brambir prepared salsa and chips for the occasion, as guests enjoyed the cocktail hour and Mexican beer, red and white sangria and margaritas. Lynne Zaris served as sous chef for the evening, assisting Chef Michael Hochhalter in his preparation of guacamole, queso, cheese and on­ion enchiladas, shrimp in chili verde, machaka beef, rice and beans and Mexican rice pudding for dessert.

Supporting the event were Deborah Hall and Rue Baxley, Daniele Berezo, Lynn and Bob Beshear, Joyce Bigby and Rick Manley, Sharon Bivens, Robin and Andy Kromis, Frank Pow­ell, Thom Ronk, Maureen Cost­ello and George Jacobsen, Jim Hodgson, Ceil and Walter Champion, Mary Hampton, Bil Hitchcock, Frank Gogan, Mi­chael Yue, Randy Tatum, Chris Shaver and Bruce Chafin, Terri and Ted Klose, Rebecca Hagan, Donna Landis, Shirley Carroll, Mark Lindsey, Joe Cottle, Phil­ip Blackwell, Joan Brinsfield, Gene Finley, Jeff Gamel, Nancy and Paul Shaw, Dee Taylor, Carol Toms, Davena and Nick Jernigan, Carol Brown and Jane Davis.

Sunday brunch with friends

Several Dining With Friends patrons joined Kathy Manning and Harry Truslow as they opened their Montgomery home and gardens for Sunday brunch.

In anticipation of the long-awaited autumn weather, the Truslow's foyer was decorated with gourds and fall flowers in col­ors of yellow and rust. As guests arrived, they were ushered to the rear porch for cocktails and appe­tizers that included Kathy's cheese straws, rosemary mixed nuts, pimento cheese spread with Cajun crackers and breads and Conecuh sausage.

Former MAO board president Tony Hickman helped welcome guests, as did MAO's medical di­rector, Laurie Dill, and former board member, the Rev. Eliza­beth O'Neill of Immanuel Presby­terian Church.

A buffet was served in the for­mal dining room, where a large centerpiece of peonies, mums and branches anchored the large table under an iron chandelier. Guests selected from Kathy's chicken sal­ad pasta, Kiss My Grits casserole, layered salad, honey-baked ham, biscuits and gravy and asparagus frittata, all prepared with Louisi­ana flair. Kathy also prepared des­serts that included pineapple truf­fles, fresh strawberries with cream and miniature cheesecakes.

Kathy and Harry's garden was in full fall bloom with French hy­drangeas, yellow lantana, ginger lilies, mums and purple butterfly bush. There, Larry Menefee, Frances Sutton, Anita Sher­man, Erin Kellen and Jim Car­nes chatted at tables accented with centerpieces of rust and yel­low mums.

Others enjoying the brunch by the lovely garden's fountain were Nora and Joe Sims, Steve Trawick, Mike Keeling, Sam Gant, Linda and Richard Jen­kins, Gary Wood, Travis Jerni­gan, Mary Wisdom, Calli Pat­terson, Kimble Forrister, Kathleen Kneeland, Barbara Crysel, Theresa Halley and Re­becca Duffy.

A Southern celebration

Erika and John Tracy wel­comed friends to their Cloverdale home for "A Southern Celebra­tion" MAO dinner they hosted with Emily and Trey Flowers and Lindsey and Bo Jinright.

Vodka and sweet tea cocktails were served for their celebration of fall's arrival in the South, as well as Southern Pecan beer that had been provided by Lazy Magno­lia Brewing Co.

Party lights were draped amongst trees surrounding a bricked patio filled with rustic décor. Guests enjoyed a dinner menu that included cowboy chili, white chicken chili and venison chili, all prepared by the hosts. Old-fashioned and candied corn­breads accompanied the favorite fall dishes that were enjoyed by Meg Lewis, Wilbur Hill, Alice Novak, Preston Williams, Sara and Tyler Caldwell, Mandy and James Franklin, Quin Segall, Melissa and Scott Bowman, John McWilliams and Sommer­ville Hill.

Also supporting the dinner with their donations were Martha and Charles Jinright, Marla Terranova, Lara and Hunter Lewis, Shelly and Baylor Wood, Lindsey and Scotty Turner and Carol Yeaman.

A Shorter gathering

Rhonda McCloud invited friends to Shorter for a Saturday afternoon outdoor gathering host­ed at the Colonial-style home of Latrece and Sandor Maloy. Tamara McCloud, Tikishia McCloud and Kelvin Maloy were among those greeting arriv­als at the event themed, "A De­lightful Gathering."

They set the stage with a fall ambiance that included scare­crows and pumpkins, bales of hay, and door prizes, as well as balloons and candles that were the center­pieces of tables covered with brown cloths.

Curtis Williams of W&J Cat­ering in Hardaway prepared the day's menu, which included chick­en Aalfredo, shrimp and pasta, seasoned pasta, Greek and green salads, brownies and raspberry tarts.

Among those enjoying the ca­sual outdoor gathering were MAO executive director Michael Murphree, Shorter Mayor Will­ie Mae Powell, Willie McCloud, Mary Hopkins, Cora Hall, Will­ie Maloy, Lawerence Lassiter, Clevester Cotton, Orlandor Ma­loy, Mable and Theodore Moon, Annie Mills, James Jackson, Raymond Echols, Shawn Ross, Ernest Hall, Micheal Hall, Deanna Payne; Harold Powell, Cherry Purifoye, John Lowe, Dino Lowe, Sabrina Lowe and Adrienne Lucas.

A Cajun evening

Susan and Bill DePaola host­ed "A Cajun Evening" for their guests, as they welcomed them for cocktails in their New Orleans-style courtyard.

The evening's menu included Cajun shrimp, crawfish and grits, French cheeses and breads and flaming bananas foster for dessert. Banana liqueurs were served as af­ter-dinner drinks and were en­joyed by guests, including Laura Calloway and Terry Harris, Marge and Larry Grewelle, Mary and Jerry Weidler, Vale­ria and Art Harman.

Mark Montoya and David Braly hosted a "Dining With Friends" event at historic Fire­house No. 9 in the Garden Dis­trict. They called theirs, a partic­ipatory evening, with each guest bringing their special contribu­tion of home-made appetizers, Italian and Greek cuisine, des­serts, fine wines and champagne to the dinner. Those joining in with their support for MAO were Priscilla Duncan, Mary Robin Jurkiewicz and Greg Tanker­sley, Garry Brantley and Rob­ert Vardaman, Steven Chesbro and John Garland, all of Mont­gomery, and Matthew Bees of Charleston, S.C.

A taste of Paris from Prague

That same evening, Chris and Rich Anderson welcomed other MAO guests to their home, affec­tionately called, "Dexter's Haven." In a play on words from "The Phil­adelphia Story," the Anderson's named their cat after Cary Grant's character, CK Dexter Haven, and the house took on the name as the last house the cat resided in.

The Saturday night weather was perfect for the couple to open all the French doors to their home, allowing guests to dine inside and out, as they enjoyed the dinner in­spired by the Anderson's spring­time trip to Prague.

Recalling the great Czech foods and beers as well as the great meals at the Café de Paris, they combined a bit of both cuisines for the MAO dining experience they offered in Montgomery.

Guests were encouraged to dress as bohemians, Francophiles, tourists and gypsies. Vintage Tex-Czech recordings played, as Czech beers were served and as Frank Powell arrived dressed up as a gypsy bearing a crystal cube.

The hosts dressed as wait staff as classic French cafe music played and as French wines were served along with Cesnecka (Czech garlic soup); salad greens with Dijon vinaigrette and French breads; beef tenderloin with Cafe de Paris butter; and pomme frites, with crème brulee and chocolate nemesis served for dessert.

Among those enjoying the evening at the Andersons' were Rhonda and Rich Ball, Carole King, Mark Palmer, Wilbur Hill, Sommerville Hill, Britta­ny and Kevin Blackburn, Tyler Caldwell, Martin McCaffery, Trina Binkely Andrews and Leale McCall.

'True Blood' dinner

The last Saturday of the month was a busy one for events in the Capital City, with Amy and Chris Carr adding their "Dining with Friends" gathering to the social agenda.

Guests arrived at the couple's Capitol Heights' home for a Hal­loween-themed costume party. Halloween music was on the eve­ning's playlist, as cocktails were served outside on the deck. Speci­alty Dracula-themed drinks in­cluded Real Blood (Hungarian Bull's Blood Wine), True Blood (Vampire Red Wine), Anemic Blood (white wine), Non-Alcohol­ic Blood (a cranberry/pomegranate punch), and Bloody Marys.

Hot spiced cider also was served as guests enjoyed pump­kin carving at an activity sta­tion, and dinner at tables under a tent in the back gardens. Orange and black candles glowed amid candy corn as centerpieces, as guests enjoyed the selections pre­pared by Amy Carr.

 Snake-shaped sandwiches were a big hit among the items on the buffet table, that also in­cluded devilish eggs, quicksand (hummus), pumpkin cheese ball, eyeballs (meatballs) in sauce, la­dies' chicken fingers, worms in dirt (chocolate pudding topped with crushed oreos and gummy worms), shortbread cookies with spooky-shaped almond finger­nails and Halloween cupcakes.

Among those supporting MAO at the Carr's party were Amy and John Applegate; Loretta Bacon; Karen Nelson; Christine Freeman; Jeannie and Bob Graetz; Jeanne Gregorowicz; Courtney McKenny, with her children, James, Katherine and Finn; Shirley Rawls; Janet Robbins; Sharon and Al Sexton; Beverly Shaffer and Hadley Bean; Lynn and Fred Shaw; Teri Sweeney; Janice Wood; Terry Woosley; Becky Duffy; Benita Hollis; Tommy Chavis and Ash­ley Tarrant.

All Hallows Eve masquerade

At the last of the planned events, several guests enjoyed hors d'oeuvres and champagne at the All Hallows Eve Masquerade gathering hosted by Ted Nobles, Steve McGraw, Paul Lightner, Earl Grace, Kenny Lignon, Van DuBose, Perry Warren, Fletch­er Hyde and Ashley and Bo Pot­ter.

All gathered at Nobles, a downtown restaurant, with guests arriving Saturday night in costumes ranging from cabaret stars to pirates to super heroes to legendary Hollywood actresses. Nobles' dining room was trans­formed for the evening to resem­ble a medieval castle. Set for 50 diners, the castle's dining table was covered with lame, sequins and cobwebs, intentionally decor­ated to appear as if it had not been used for centuries.

The table's décor included handmade centerpieces in an HIV/AIDS Red Ribbon theme with three grand displays of red roses. A buffet table included a large cauldron of witches brew, many spine-tingling hors d'oeuvres and a champagne bub­bling from a beverage fountain.

Keeping watch over everyone as they made their food selec­tions during the evening were a giant devil and giant black spi­ders as well as two floating ghost­ly apparitions.

Ted's famous beef tenderloin was among the many items en­joyed, as well as sesame chicken, marinated shrimp, baked brie in puff pastry, bacon-wrapped pick­led watermelon rinds, hummus dip and champagne.

Among those supporting the masquerade fundraiser were Henry Allen Jr., Simon Bovi­nett, Eleanor Davis, Priscilla Duncan, David Fancher, Paul Hard, Randy Foster, Frank Gitschier, Ron Porter, Jo Anne Hinson, Lee Ann and Jeff Hollo­way, Wes Little, Neal Brantley, Tom McCabe, Virgil McCain, Hector Perez, Ken Register, John Preston, Rhonda Finneyf­rock, Dennis Ritchie, Julia Schneider, Jackie Bowers, Charles Still, Ron Hunt, Glenn Cannon, Lee Terrell, Carl Stokes, Mary Nell Tharp, Pam Tharp, Marsha Walser, Gary Warren, Toni Bruner, Robert Hawkins, Lawrence Jetton, Megan Wood, Haley Moody, Matt Hooton, Lissa Lauder­baugh, Mark Weatherly, Lee Ann and Ken Turner and Mar­garet Hamon.

Deborah Hayes Moore writes about society news for the Mont­gomery Advertiser. She may be reached by voicemail at 956-0254 or by e-mail at
dmougins@aol.com.